Body Languages the Good and the Bad

When it comes to dating and sex men, body language can help you pick up women without using verbal language. In fact, body language is one of the most important gifts guys need when trying to get women interested in them. Body languages among men and women share many similarities in that they are both used to communicate thoughts that you probably would not say aloud to a woman you just meet. Studying body languages can help you learn what message a woman is trying to send you and save you a lot of time and trouble when dating. Nonverbal communication is the primary form of communication; before you say a word to a woman, you already have made some impression on her because of your body language. If you see a woman in a sexy outfit, who smiles and flirted her body language is drawing her into you. However, a woman who sits with her arms crossed a frown on her face and gives off an icy vibe can easily repel a guy from finding her attractive. Noticing Bad Body Languages Just as women use body language to get guys attention men can use their body language to make sure they are turning a woman on instead of off. Let me explain this in a little more detail. You go out to an event where there are many pretty women all around for socializing. In your own opinion, you are an average guy and this negative self-doubt causes you to act a little shy and nervous when approaching or talking with girls. To avoid detection you slouch against a wall or slouch when sitting down being careful to shrink into the surroundings and take up as little space as possible. You find a woman and stare pointedly in her direction daring her too look back at you. When she does look, your nerves start to get the better of you and you give her a blank stare or you get a nervous look in your eyes and look away. Body languages like these do not attract women, in fact you are sending out several crossed signals. By constantly staring at her you made her feel uncomfortable and then by looking away and frowning you come across as indecisive, not really sure of what you want. Creating Good Body Languages Guys you are the only person who can change your body language. A primary reason for having bad body language among men is fear. Fear is a waste of time and energy, in no way does fear help you too meet women or get her too sleep with you. To overcome your fears try thinking of what could go wrong when you approach a woman. Maybe she says yes and maybe you are turned down, it really is that simple. Guys who are led by fear think that being turned down is personal, guys it is not about you! Most of the time if a woman rejects your approach she is already in another relationship or you did not pay enough attention to her body language signals. Never get mad or become hostile if a woman does not want to give you her number, insults are always a bad idea. The best way to handle the situation is to smile, thank her for her time and apologize if you disturbed her. Keep your body language friendly and approachable. This trick is not only about the girl who rejected you; other women are probably watching this exchange. In fact, her female friends are probably listening right now! Even if the girl you wants turns you down, a friend of hers or another girl can see how you handled the rejection and decide to offer you her number. Use Your Body Language When Creating a First Impression Increasing effective body languages, between you and women you like helps in making a better first impression. The next time you head out for a night; make sure you are confident about how you appear. Your clothing does not have too be new, or expensive. In fact, some of the most popular guys adopt a grungy style or bad boy look. What really works however is adopting a clothing style that you feel confident wearing out in public. The clothes do not make the man but they can definitely help a man get laid. Make your first impression memorable by being sure to act like a man who thinks he can score with women. The next time you head out for a night on the town be sure to make your presence felt. Either standing or sitting be sure to spread yourself out a bit keeping your legs a little apart, shake off any nerves you have too avoid and have some fun, using body languages to hit on women.