Signs Of A Cheating Wife

While there can be an innocent explanation for almost anything, some signs of a cheating wife are pretty easy to spot, if you are paying any attention at all. If you notice credit card statements or receipts showing purchases of lingerie, sex toys, etc., of find such items and/or condoms in her possession, but these items are never part of your activities with her, there's good reason to be suspicious.

One of the more common signs of a cheating wife is when she suddenly starts being very secretive. If she engages in hushed phone calls or tries to only converse on the phone in private, or if you notice she spends a lot of time online but the browsing history on your computer has been erased, there is cause to be suspicious. There is of course the possibility that she's trying to plan a surprise party for you or something like that, so don't jump to conclusions too quickly. It is also possible that she's satisfying some fantasy online that she would never explore in the real world, but such behavior still suggests some dissatisfaction with your relationship.

The sexual signs of a cheating wife can also be signs of other things, so be careful about jumping to conclusions. One possibility is that she becomes less interested in sex, which could signal that she is being unfaithful, or it could be a loss of sex drive due to any number of things - stress, fatigue, hormonal changes, etc.. The opposite scenario can also occur - she wants sex more often. This can be a ploy to try keep you satisfied so that you won't suspect anything, or it can be a result of hormonal changes, feeling sexier as a result of weight loss, or a number of other things that can increase libido. So, changes in her desire for sex may not be a good indicator of whether or not she's cheating, but they should be considered along with other signs.

Besides the amount of sexual interest, there may be changes in how she behaves during sexual intimacy. She might kiss differently or perhaps want to engage in sexual acts or sexual positions that she has never done before. While this may simply be due to an idea she got from a magazine article or friend, a new interest in a sexual position or act could be a sign that a new partner has given her new ideas.

A sign of a cheating wife that can be easy to miss is when she spends a lot of time with one of her female friends and that friend starts to take up all of your wife's time, inculding late nights and weekends. In such cases, the friend may be your wife's alibi so she can sneak off to be with her male companion. In some situations, the friend actually turns out to be the one the wife is cheating with. It can be easy to ignore the signs of a cheating wife when she's spending her time with a woman, but you need to be aware of the very real possibility that she could in fact be cheating on you with another woman rather than another man.

If you have reason to believe that your wife is being unfaithful, it is very important to try to get your emotions under control and then carefully gather the evidence you need to be sure of what's going on, and then decide what you want to do about it. The strong emotions that are typical when you suspect infidelity might provoke you into rushing into some action that you'll regret later on. It is best to try to stay cool and calm and carefully get the proof you need that she is actually being unfaithful.

There are several ways to do this, and there are quite a number of online resources to help you do it yourself. The thing you have to realize is that you are emotionally involved in this, and chances are you are not as skilled as a professional investigator, so if you are going to collect your own evidence, you need a system that is simple to implement and allows you to get the evidence you need without risking getting caught investigating her. After all, if it turns out that she is not cheating, and she finds out that you were investigating her, that could sour the relationship just as easily as if she were having an affair - only in this case, you are the "bad guy" - the jealous, insecure, "nut-job" - and you will be the one your mutual friends turn against. So, choose carefully how you are going to go about things.

When you are completely sure that she's been cheating and you have proof, only then should you confront her. You also need to figure out what it is you want to try to do - rebuild the relationship or split up. It is critical that you keep your anger under control because violence or destructive behavior can result in legal trouble that will cause far more damage to your life than her infidelity did.

By keeping your anger and hurt under control you can make sure to carefully assess whether the signs of a cheating wife that you have observed are truly indicators of her being unfaithful, or if there's some other explanation. If it turns out that she has been cheating, you can then consider what to do next.