Female Masturbation: Sex Toys, Lubes, Clitoral Stimulation, and the G Spot

Male masturbation seems to be a very much open sex topic, but female masturbation on the whole is much more taboo. Many people openly talk about guys jerking off, but not too much is out in the open about women and the clit or the g spot. Female masturbation is often still learned about through trial and error or from friends through the grapevine. There are actually many different ways for female masturbation to be performed. It is, for most women, the way that they have the best and most intense orgasm, even with a good sex life. Masturbating is also the best way for women to explore their sexuality to find out exactly what turns her on and what doesnt. A woman can zero in on the areas that do the most for her, whether that is her g spot or by massaging her clitoris. While some women orgasm best by fondling her clitoris, others enjoy stroking the g spot the best, and still others can get completely aroused just by vaginal penetration alone. There are still a lot of women that really dont know too much about female masturbation, even though it is slowly becoming more talked about. The first step when experimenting with female masturbation is to relax. Take a few deep breaths and a few minutes to gather your focus and put it all on you. This is very important. It is difficult to reach climax if you are thinking about bills, groceries, the kids, and the errands that you havent run yet. The next step is to turn on your imagination. Many people have secret fantasies that can get the blood flowing to the vaginal area. Once you are relaxed and have your erotic thoughts in mind, next you should begin running your fingers all over your body, exploring to see which areas respond sexually to touch. Touch your clitoris, your nipples, your labia, and your perineum, for starters. Female masturbation involves strokes, either in a back and forth or a circular motion, tickles, tugs, pulls, and little twists to your genitals are all great ways to heighten your sexual arousal, beginning to bring you closer to climax. Remember to breathe throughout your female masturbation experience, enhancing sexual tension that is building up instead of fighting with it. Many women love to rhythmically rock the pelvis like they would during intercourse. As you come closer to orgasm, add in extra stimulation to your nipples, clit, and vagina. Using a dildo or your fingers to thrust in and out of the vagina will help. As you begin to orgasm, keep the stimulation going, but ease up some as you reach the height of the orgasm. Dont stop altogether yet, though, because as the orgasm winds down, there are great little aftershocks to enjoy. Although female masturbation really requires nothing more than your fingers to masturbate, using sex toys is a popular way to discover new sensations and add variety and fun to your female masturbation routine. Vibrators are great for beginners and advanced experts in masturbation, because they can take some of the work out of stimulating the clitoris. Female masturbation can be a great way to unwind and take care of you for once!